What makes up the materials in an argument?  It's the two of you.  First, it's based on adult attachment and how that works on you both in your relationship.  Next, it's the tender spots, old hurts or baggage you both carry into the relationship.  These often trigger the argument and can be right out of your knowing. Next week, we get into the actual diagram of an argument and how it happens between the two of you and we end with the instructions - how to sidestep or avoid the argument.

I’m your host Tami Zak, an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and a Relationship Coach.  Not only do I bring my training and experience as a therapist and coach to the podcast, I bring experience from a long-term marriage - I have been married to my partner for over 25 years.  All of this informs the advice and knowledge I am sharing with you.

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