Now we look at the instructions - not how to put together the argument but how to break it down so you can understand it - you both create this pattern or cycle of argument together.  That means you can stop it together and communicate in a new way. Today's episodes offer the instructions for how to take this step and actually communicate - listen and hear each other in order to connect.

I’m your host Tami Zak, an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and a Relationship Coach.  Not only do I bring my training and experience as a therapist and coach to the podcast, I bring experience from a long-term marriage - I have been married to my partner for over 25 years.  All of this informs the advice and knowledge I am sharing with you.

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